belated anniversary

punye la sibuk dgn entry anak..lupe nk buat entry anniversary.. yg 1st plak tu!..uhuk3..

alhamdulillah rezeki awal.. xsempat nk sambut anny berdua.. ilhan da keluar 10 ari sebelum..hehe.. nasib baik sempat raya berdua.. at least nti tunjuk gambar 1st raya bole la ckp kat ilhan..

'this time, u still in mommy's tummy'..

btw, happy anniversary to us. da setahun rupanya kawen.. pikir2 mmg rasa mcm xpercaya.. byk xbyk pengalaman setahun jd bini org.. mcm2 la benda yg belajar hari2..

hari2..

yg penting.

sabar.rasional.be happy.

kalau rasa nk marah.diam. kalau kena marah.diam. kalau rasa xpuas hati.fikir. kalau rasa sedih.fikir. kalau rasa xromantik.jadi romantik. kalau rasa happy. share. kalau rasa xhappy.pun share.

plg penting. jgn over expected ur partner.

bila rasa apa yg dapat xseperti diharapkan.be rasional.n think. kita manusia. xkan pernah rasa puas xkan bole puaskan org.

husband n wife complimented each other. kalau 2-2 perfect. no fun la kan?

things to keep doing n improve.

semua org akan share everything with her/his partner kan? same as us la.. bila balik kerja msti bebel mcm2 dgn mr.k..apa yg jd kat ofis..apa yg ada kat fb that day..apa yg berlaku sepanjang hari mr.k xde disisi la.. bila da abis bebel sendiri punya cerita.. baru teringat nk tnye mr.k punya cerita..n i'll make sure to LISTEN.

listen.listen.listen.

the good is, mr.k xlokek cerita. bukan mcm certain org yg akan reply.. 'biasa la.. keje byk.. mcm biasa..'

kalau mr.k reply mcm tu pun mmg kena paksa utk cerita kot.. sbb penat je prepare telinga utk dgr tau..

masa ni 2-way communication rules sgt penting.

anyway, topik kedai kopi mr.k n rakan2 ofis dah berubah mengikut phase. mula2 psl kereta la.phone la.. pastu kawen2..skrg da anak2 pulak.. seronok jugak bila tau kaum lelaki ada gosip psl susu..pampers..hehe

*keep listening ira*

i have to lesser my body language. korg.. body language ni kekadang xberkesan utk lelaki ye.. buat penat je korg praktikkan..huu..

have to start use more 'please' now.. alhamdulillah...he accept it well. *tgk time jugak la*

i have to cut off my fb-addict. xde pape pun kat fb tu.. tp sentiasa je nk tgk.. lg la skrg da byk like page jual baju baby..keke..

keep all the good things like, jgn compare rezeki org.. jgn berkira how much you have done..jgn suka letak high expectation on something u dun even know.. if things not going as u expected just keep remind yourself Allah knows the best.

what else eh?

haa..jgn lupa diri.. toloooong la jaga penampilan ira oi.. utk husband. pls. baru anak satu ni..ingat2 la.. jaga diri betul2 ye.. jgn malas2.. nnti jadi mcm cerita miss ahjumma tu.. =(
ingat. kalau hari kerja, balik kerja msti buat muka happy even its a bad day...
kalau dekat rumah, msti sambut husband balik dlm keadaan yg bersih n segar..
hari-hari mesti energetic ira! mesti! jgn malas2.. =)

Dear husband,

Happy anniversary to us. sekejap je da setahun. rasa mcm baru semlm sibuk dgn kenduri...hehe..

sekarang we have complete family, not only u n me..tq for always being here with me, tq for being so much understanding, tq for being patient...tq for everything that you have done thru this 365days.
selama kita kawen xpernah pun berasing sampai la hari yg ke 365 kan. seksanya first 2 weeks without you hanya Allah yang tahu..
semoga jodoh kita berpanjangan hingga ke syurga.. semoga kita lebih matang dlm menghadapi semua cabaran2..semoga kita dikurniakan kesihatan yang baik.. semoga kita dimurahkan rezeki.. semoga kita dpt mendidik anak2 jd anak yg soleh n solehah..
and there is nothing else i wish the most except we stay together until our last breath. amin.

 anniversary picture #365

ilhan #10days